To Disclose or Not to Disclose - I have MS

I have lupus, which is also a chronic illness with good days and bad days and am on disability because of it. I don't disclose it in my profile, and usually not in e-mails, but I will disclose it if we get to a face-to-face meeting. If it is really going to be a problem for the other person, I would rather find that out before I have too much emotion invested in the relationship. It's really best to be honest, but give the people you are trying to date a chance to get to know you a little bit, before you tell them. After all, I'm sure they are not immediately disclosing their shortcomings to you! Best wishes and God bless!
- newdawnday