Two Women: Am I Heading For Trouble?

Dear Brenda,

Help! I met a girl the other day, went out with her and we got on really nice. In fact she rang me to say what a great time she had, and would love to meet me again to which I replied sure.

The girl of my dreams suddenly rings me up. I've been trying to get her to have a drink for 2 months, but shes had a lot of personal problems which are now sorted. Anyway, she asked me out for a drink on friday which I replied sure!

After putting the phone down it suddenly hit me... The first girl really likes me. The second girl really wants to meet me. Ummm, I'm heading for trouble, aren't I?
- Jon559

Dear Jon559,

That depends on what you untimately want for yourself. If you want a relationship with someone, then you'll eventually (or even sooner) figure out which girl makes more sense to you. But trouble could be waiting for you if you find both women equally attractive/appealling, if you just like the attention, and/or if they want exclusive relationships and you don't.

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