How Can I Attract Men?

Dear Brian,
I am a 19 year old gay guy.  I am more passionate for men than girls.  I like tall, well built, fair guys. If I know a guy who is gay, how should I  contact him.  Also how can I attract others to me. Thanks,
- 19 and Gay

Dear 19 and Gay,
If you know a guy who is gay and you're interested in getting together with him, simply give him a call if you have his phone number.  Or send him an email if you don't.  If you know for sure that he's gay, he shouldn't take offense at learning that you are sexually and/or romantically attracted to him.  Ask him out to dinner and a movie, or ask him to get together for coffee.  As for how you can attract others, my advice is to be yourself.  Be open, honest, and comfortable with your sexuality.  Dress to impress without being pretentious, keep yourself nicely groomed, and don't hide the fact that you're gay. Like yourself and let people know it, and chances are they'll like you, too.  And that includes the men you find attractive.

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