Can A Muslim Find A Christian To Love?

Dear Brian,
I am a Muslim, but I love Christians (whites, westerners) because only a westerner can understand me. Somehow I met this guy over chat. He's a male nurse from Missouri. He promised me that he will come to India and take me along with him. He will marry me and eventually we will end up spending the rest of our lives together. But he turned out to be a liar. He was already marred to a guy named Ryan. I felt like dying but then I told myself that this might be my fate. Since then I am waiting for someone who would love me. So, Brian, I seek your advice because I don't want to be alone in life and I believe in love, not lust, so I don't search for sex anywhere. I am patien tly waiting for the love of my life.
- Mohammed89

Dear Mohammed89,
Keep searching. If white men are your passion, you really should consider going where the white men are. The United States is one option. Continue searching online for your true love, but don't set your hopes too high. Be skeptical of men you've never met face-to-face who make promises of marriage or of relocating from Missouri to India. I think you'd agree that is quite a journey, and one would have to be prepared to adapt to the significant cultural change. But you might also examine your statement that "only a westerner can understand me." Why do you feel that way? Is it that your own country's dominant religious beliefs do not correspond to your own? Or is it simply that you find westerner s more physically attractive? Needless to say, it's more practical to look for love in your own country than in another. I would suggest that you start your search there. Only if you fail to find a man in India who "understands" you would I look to another country.

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